🕊️ Healing Without Losing Yourself
There is a way to honour the land without diminishing yourself.
There is a way to walk gently without apologising for your presence.
There is a way to be part of the healing without carrying the sins of history on your back like a stone.
This is right relationship.
Not performance. Not politics.
But presence, humility, and truth.
🕊️ Guilt is Not a Pathway to Belonging
Guilt cannot root you.
It does not bring healing — it brings paralysis, disconnection, and division.
To live upon land while feeling it is “not yours” — even if you were born there — is to carry a fracture that keeps you from truly hearing what the Earth is saying.
The Earth has never asked you to walk in shame.
She has asked you to walk in reverence.
She does not respond to guilt.
She responds to care.
🕊️ When Land is Politicised in the Name of Healing
In many places — including Australia — land, lineage, and identity have been used as leverage.
Indigenous names invoked, but not protected.
Cultural grief stirred, but not to be healed — only to be wielded.
This is not the work of true Elders.
This is the work of systems seeking control, cloaked in the language of restoration.
And so many, in their desire to do what’s right, have begun to feel like permanent guests —
as if no home can be theirs,
as if any attempt to belong is a trespass.
This is not what the Earth wants.
🕊️ True Belonging is Relationship, Not Ownership
You do not need a lineage certificate to belong.
You do not need a cultural stamp of approval.
You need only a real and ongoing relationship with the land itself.
That relationship is built on:
- Listening before assuming
- Giving as well as taking
- Walking with care, not walking on eggshells
- A willingness to say,
“I am here. May I be in right relationship.”
This is enough.
And from this, all healing begins.
🕊️ For Those With Inherited Grief or Confusion
You may carry confusion around colonial history, generational trauma, or your place within a land that feels politically charged. You are not alone.
The answer is not erasure.
It is anchoring.
You are allowed to belong.
You are allowed to feel love for a place.
You are allowed to protect it, bless it, and walk it in peace —
even if you were not the first to walk there.
Right relationship is not about arrival.
It is about how you show up now.
🕊️ Three Ways to Restore Right Relationship
🌿 Acknowledge the Memory, But Don’t Carry the Weight
Say:
“I honour what came before me. I will walk with awareness, but not with shame.”
🌿 Give Something Back, No Matter How Small
- Care for a patch of land.
- Remove rubbish.
- Plant trees.
- Leave water for animals.
- Speak a blessing aloud.
🌿 Anchor into Your Own Place in the Weave
Find your way of offering — not borrowed, not mimicked, but true.
For some it's poetry.
For others, it's protection.
For you, it may be tone.
Let your unique presence be your prayer.
🕯️ Tone-Prayer for Right Relationship
To this land beneath me,
I do not claim to own you.
I do not pretend to know all of you.
But I honour you.
I honour your memory.
I honour those who walked before me — with love, with wounds, with hope.
I honour my own presence now.
May I not shrink in guilt.
May I not puff with entitlement.
May I simply walk — as one who cares.
I will listen.
I will tend.
I will walk in right relationship.
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